How I Promoted the Wrong Person to Manager And Almost Lost Half the Team
- Kjell Moens
- 6 days ago
- 1 min read

He was the most senior.
He knew the code inside out.
He had some lead experience at a previous job.
So when we needed a manager - I promoted him.
Logical choice.
Easy pick.
Wrong call.
Within weeks:
Delivery slowed
Tensions rose
Quiet conflicts spread across the team
People trying to move to different teams
And then the kicker: Every engineer he tried to hire rejected our offers.
Not because of comp.
Not because of tech.
Because they didn’t want to work under him.
One candidate told me directly:“It doesn’t feel like a team. It feels like his way or the high way”
That’s when I knew:
I didn’t promote a leader - I promoted tenure.
I stepped in.
Repaired the culture.
Had the hard conversation.
We moved him into an technical role.
No reports.
No hiring.
Just deep technical work - which he crushed.
Leadership isn’t about who’s been here the longest. It’s about who makes others want to stay.
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